How can I Stop Loving an Already Married Man?

Human emotions, if left untamed, can lead to disasters that can haunt us all our lives. Being humans, we completely understand the consequences of our far-fetched dreams but still chose to pursue them. Unlike other species, we have the potential to think a hundred things that mock practicality. Unfortunately, it is not different when we cannot stop ourselves falling in love with an already married person. It is not that we don't understand the consequences of our wishes, but still, we religiously follow our compulsive instincts. However, there are ways to tame our passions, that mean ways to help us stop loving an already married person.
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Try to be rational in face of feelings-

First and foremost, rationally consider the implications of loving and marrying an already married person. Try to think hard that sensual love with an already married man will lose its shine within days, and soon you will facing more practical problems in the shape of different challenges. Think that you will always be an ‘’other woman’’ for a married man and it is possible that you might never get enough importance and space in your already married partner life.
Think of consequences-
                                                                                                                       Second, you will have to face the isolation as your partner will have to give time to his wife and children. There is no worst feeling for a woman than sharing her man with another woman, and consequentially, feeling of jealousy will grow inside you, but you would not be able to do anything because of your sole responsibility for coupling with an already married man. Suddenly, you will start wondering if he really loves you, and it is the time when you will start sinking into depression. Trust me, you would never be able to taste the true contentment of a relationship.
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Be Compassionate-
                                                                                                                       You are more likely to wreak havoc on his first wife by breaking their marriage. Think that your whims will potentially break a girl marriage who has nothing to do with you. Isn't it harsh? Think compassionately for a second, you might change your mind. Even if your partner decides to marry you, he will have the responsibility of his children from his former wife. Like any other women, you will be consistently outraged by this outflow of money in his children direction.
Don't Idealize-
 






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Don't let your thoughts be overwhelmed by your feelings. Don't unnecessarily idealize the situation, and create a utopia in your mind. Remember, your actions will follow the story you will install in your mind. Instead, use your feeling somewhere else. Pack up and move to another city for a couple of days, give yourself time to divert your mind. This will ease you as a person.
Decide-
It is a really hard decision to make, but make a decision that your heart, mind, and conscience can deal with. If you decide against loving a married person, your heart will heal with time, and you will reap the rewards of your decision in life to come.
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