14 Common Mistakes Committed by Individuals that Lead to Divorce

 

These are some of the major mistakes committed by individuals in the selection of Partner that leads to divorce.

• Looking for sameness in people, even when they know it can’t work.
• Looking for completely opposite kind of people, hoping that it will perfectly work for them somehow.
• Hoping that this time will be the very best when we already have certain apprehensions and doubts, in the beginning, doubts you are not keen to speak out.
•    Assuming that people are respectful and sane because all the people should be so, at least this is what Jesus says, and you will for sure manage a way to stay together even during tough times.
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•    Being too influenced by the physical appearance of another person, while knowing it is the only complimentary part.
•    Not taking into account the life priorities of another person, or wrongly assuming they are pretty similar to yours.
•    Expecting people that are committed to us while flirting to be committed for a whole lifetime.

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•    Avoiding too many important topics in the beginning for the sake of ease, because we don't want to create doubt in the mind of other. Then it ends that we don't know enough about the things and we discover them too late and our life becomes hell.
•    Accepting too many compromises at beginning, or accepting no compromises at all. In an ideal relationship, you must have a delicate balance, but there goes none.
•    Losing your originality and becoming someone else before the marriage to create an impression.
•    Not looking for common grounds to discuss, hoping that they will come one day out of share love ecstasy.
•    Overestimation or underestimation of yourself.
•    Not considering the cultural or ethnical difference. I am not promoting bigotry of any sorts, but every culture - even of two close Latin American countries - is pretty different and consider the same thing in different ways. There are different ideological priorities, and of course, styles of life.
•    Not considering differences deeply and in general terms and be fascinated by the versatility.
There are many other mistakes, of course, but these are the first ones that come to my mind.
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