What Is One Quality In A Man Which Makes A Woman Fall In Love With Him?

Up until the latter stages of my life, I was the “desperate romantic” who wanted to turn every woman’s dating experience into some romance novel but then I understood and found a perfect balance of sorts.
What I learned was that not all women are crazy about romanticism. And there whims and desires vary as much as guys from person to person.  Some of them are really restrained while others are all about romance and high level of emotions. Some desire adventure and hence intimacy through such companionship while others want to settle down into a calm and mature relationships.
When I look back at the life I see certain attributes which girls of all sort find attractive.
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.#1. Confidence

 Please understand this. ‘’Confidence’’ is not synonymous to ‘’douchebag’’, or to an assertion of some sort of aggressive authority. Please understand this.

Being confident means to know yourself, to such an extent that you feel comfortable in different situations you found yourself in. Don’t feign confidence. Never! See deep down into yourself and know yourself. Once sure about yourself, you will naturally lead the path to confidence.
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Most of my partners found my confidence pleasing and comforting. Unlike many douchebags, I never belittle, authoritative or manipulate them. I am simply self-assured in every situation that is from helping her clean house or running over to store to find out some product which she needs. I am unperturbed by this all, and I am not ashamed by this either. This feel-good factor makes her feel proud of me as she feels that ‘’ I am always here to help her’’. I am confident about what I am. I don’t think what everyone else thinks about my relationship with her.
As someone said ‘’Be James Bond about your life’’, that is both in confidence and self-composure. Don’t disarm but be confident. It can always be your own way of being confident. For this to happen, go deep inside yourself and figure out what you are you all about. You might benefit from it in other trials of life. Anyway, once women find that composure and self-esteem in you, she will pick you. However, if you are going to pretend your fake confidence, chances are less bright then.

#2. Be Respectful

 Not all, but most women would like you to hold bags for them, help them in cooking, pulling up chairs with them, etc. While there are others who are a lot more democratic in their attitude.  With my first girlfriend, I used to open doors for her, help her cooking and shopping. This made her uncomfortable, I found it out and changed my attitude. For other women, they absolutely enjoyed this sort of attitude.  There is a very formula at work to make women feel comfortable with you.

•    Respect her as a fellow human being.
•    Respect her views and desires.
•    Respect the very idea that she choose you over others.
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3. Show Actual Interest In Her/Be A Good Listener

Most of the guys are only interested in the body of women that means an interest in  them physically. That makes women feel like a superficial commodity. If you are unreal or obsessive about their body, they will soon found it over. You need to be original. Listen to her what she feels, what is her life view is, and you will be able to enjoy a long-term relationship.
Let’s see why is it important
•    If this woman is someone you are planning to be for a long time, there is no greater way to show concern for her than to listen to every minute detail of her interest.
•    Keep this in mind ‘’ There are no greater compliment women can give to her man than judging him worthy to tell him her tale’’ Keep this in mind. If you want to pay the compliment back, just listen to her and pay her desired importance.
•    For the women reading this, I want to share with you a truth that you may find enlightening:

•    I’m going to give you a piece of advice in the bedroom.

•    Learn to please her while making love. It is not only about you, she is also the part of it. If you can learn this, you will never have any issue in the bedroom.

 Touch her how she wants to be touched.
It is important that your extreme interest in her guiding you towards building her sexual peak.
The more considerate you are in the bedroom, and the more attention you pay to her needs, the more sexually active she will want to be.Be the guy she remembers even after you decide to say goodbye to each other.
• Be that guy, and not the “If I stick it in, I win!”, douchebag.