To start with, remember that no psychological love hack is worth a hack if you can’t learn and apply it in 5 minutes. It is also better to possess 3-4 hacks that you really know than having 50 hacks that you can't use in practice. There is a huge amount of material available online on psychological hacks, however very few of them qualifies for the category of love hacks. It is important to note that the science of psychological love hacks is significantly different from other life situation hacks.
In this article, I will be focusing on some of the most useful love hacks practically applicable in our time. These psychological love hacks need very little practice, and you can start with them even from now.
In this specific context of love hacks, I have picked 4 hacks that have worked wonders in successful relationships. You must use at least one of these love hacks to measure their worth.
1. Eye contact:
Eyes are the most expressive organ of our body. We convey feelings, emotions, whims through them. They are a gateway to human emotions and mind. Think of instances when you have looked into others eyes to gauge personality through their eyes. This is exactly every person does. Studies reveal that when two people who love each other look into each other's eyes, their heartbeat synchronizes with each other. It also reveals that when people in love look into each other's eyes, they heartbeat automatically shoots up. So, If you have the ability to make sound eye-contact with your partner, you are bound to communicate your love better, and therefore, your emotions and feelings. To your disbelief, most of the people neglect this particular aspect of their love life, which leads to the decline of the intensity of love.
To illustrate, you can do a number of things with it:
• Look in you partner eyes to show honesty and confidence.
• Flirt with your eyes. Use them to good effect to mesmerize your partner. It will help you.
• Maintain a shine in your eyes. For practice sake, see yourself eyes while smiling in a mirror and copy that to use in your real life situations.
2. Speech:
Pause, before you respond to your lover. Amazed by the sophistication of your demeanor, your lover will listen more passionately. Not to mention that we like a little sophistication in manner and behavior. Even more significantly, don't interrupt when he/she talks. Remember the golden rule ''No one wants to listen and everyone wants to speak''. If you can listen well, you are in for a treat of a relationship.
If your partner is serious and asks a question that you don't want to respond immediately. Don’t hasten yourself to answer. Take a pause, it will give you a breather to look into the matter deeply. Unflustered, answer with probation and alter the course of the discussion. However, don’t show any sign of fidget and stay calm during the course of conversation. Remember, people who are good in love are good in manipulating these minutes hacks.
3. Posture:
Some say that love is above physical postures and behavior. It would have been so if human's lacked the aesthetic sense, though unfortunately, they have a pretty precise sense of what is aesthetically acceptable and what is not. In simple words, posture matters a lot. You are precisely what you show up in public.
If you are on a date, sit relaxed and never move your hands frantically, it will help you gain ascendency.
4. Mirroring :
Anticipate hard what your partner wants to converse and respond accordingly. Never waste time talking about yourself. It should be mostly about the partner. Try to be a passive receiver who understands the emotive needs of his/her lover. It will strenghten your relationship.
I assume that you will be already aware of a number of hacks such as noticing one's breath slowly during the period of conversation and so on.
If you have any question, feel free to ask in the comment section.
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