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    Sunday 27 November 2016

    7 Long Distance Relationship Problems that Lead to Breakup

    Breakup happens and we have to face them, however, there are reasons attached to them. Let's analyze the science of long distance relations and potential problems that lead to the breakups.
    Immediate Communication Breakdown
    Communication gap is one of the detrimental problems which impedes the deterioration of long distance relationship. We have the facility of WhatsApp, Skype, IMO and many other social media websites to connect but are they good enough to give the warmth and cordiality of an intimate hug? The type of sensation you get when you are close to your beloved? And the feeling that comes from holding the hand of your beloved every other second?

    The feeling of aroused intimacy when you take her on a date? No. The simple answer is that you cannot have an alternative of these sensations and feelings. No matter how much you try to trigger engaged, lack of these love conditions will haunt your relation. To make the scenario even gloomier, your interactions become severely curtailed with every passing week. Suddenly, you require an effort to keep in touch, and even greater effort to feel connected.  

    Futuristic Look-
     
    You are not sure about your future as a pair. You doubt if you are ever going to share the bed or even the same city. Useless to say, these doubts prepare the ground for a troubled relationship with your partner. 
     

    Cheating-

    Are you inclined to cheat when your partner is away? Do you belong to a category of people who believe that ‘’If she/he don’t get to know this, it won’t hurt her’? But to simplify it, you can only be of one sort.
    •    You Cheat.
               Or
    •    You Don’t.
    There are people who would normally stay loyal to their partners, but when they go into a far-distanced relationship, they don’t respond well to complete physical separation and emotive needs. Loneliness generally creeps in, and interesting people seems to appear in bars and dance clubs. Ultimately you drink and take bad romantic decisions. Dommed!
    Seeds of Doubt
    There are several relationships that end due to trust deficit. Some of these doubts can be the product of your falsified imagination while others can be real. It is really difficult to know if your partner is cheating on you or not. There might be leads suggesting one thing or the other, but these are always an aura of uncertainty when it comes to perfect judgment of your partner.

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    Trust has also a lot to do with your relationship history. How was your dating period? Sexual orientations and behavioral approaches each of you naturally inhabited? They contribute to trust conundrum. Is there someone else interested in your partner and chases him/her passionately. It is very much possible and there are reasons to be insecure. 

    Context to Sad Break Up
    Unfortunately, your relation is not going anywhere. You have done everything possible to keep it alive but nothing has worked. You’ve written letters, tried to keep up with his life and sent gifts whenever you got time, but the fact is that your long distance relationship is not working out.
    Why?

    Ok. Let’s admit it. Sometimes, long-distance relations are designed to fail. During the initial stages of such relationships, you want to connect to your previous life to feel stability and composure, even if you have not yet decided to have a long time relation with you.People fear to jump in new relationships, but after few day, when the dust of insecurity settles, people tend to feel good with their ‘’present’’ environment. With this, all the high tune intensity of long distanced relation goes down slowly. 
    Harsh Reality

    It is a harsh reality that most of the long-distance relationships linger on because of ''certain circumstances'' which do not allow both partners to back out of a relationship. With career concerns and insecurities, long distance relationship can hold itself for a certain length of time. But it will soon come to you as a realization that things are falling apart. People interests, new friends may cause them to part away from you.

    Life Moves on
     You should understand that not all relations are built to last forever, and distance is only to be blamed for your breakup. 
     Distance serves as a surging catalyst to bring about the inevitable doom to your once-cherished relationship. You must understand that your relation is no more workable and you need to move on while understanding the factual basis of the breakup.
    You must understand that this world keeps on flipping every now and then, and sometimes, you need to go with the tide. Life has its own ways, and you need to find compatibility with it.

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