Do you wonder why your boyfriend never buys you a gift? There is nothing worse than seeing your best friend get a lot of gifts from his boyfriend and knowing that you won't get any of these from your boyfriend. Automatically, this leads to a morbid feeling of deprivation that pinches badly. It even leaves you to wonder if your boyfriend really cares about you. 'He never buys me little things, even flowers, and candies' You ponder. You want him to surprise you with gifts but he just does not. Leading towards self-doubt, you tend to question the health of a gift less relationship. However, there are certain reasons associated with these giftless relationships. Let's dwell into the mind of a boyfriend.
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1. He does not understand the importance of gifts in a relationship-
As simple as that, most boys don’t spend time in a gift culture during their childhood, therefore, don’t really understand the importance of gifts in a successful relationship. Oblivious to the importance of gifts in a relationship, they unknowingly ignore the sentiments of their girlfriend who craves for a show of love through the exchange of material gifts. See, he is simply unaware of the needs of a sound relationship, and as a result, doesn't buy gifts for you.
2. He wants to stay strong in relationships-
Boys are as tender in emotions as are girls by nature, but when they start to develop into adults, they are socially taught to stay emotionally strong. Probably, You boyfriend has decided to be strong and got himself into thinking that buying gifts for her girlfriend will prove harmful to his stature of manhood. Feeling completely justified, he decides not to buy you gifts. However, his propensity to not buy you gifts does not indicate that he loves you any less or doesn't want to be the part of your life. It is just that he has created a web of manhood around himself that does not allow him to buy gifts for you. It is something personal and not related to you at all.
3. He does not believe in gifts
It can be simply that he considers gifts as an example of artificiality and wants to save his relationships from duplicity by saying no to gifts. Thinking of your relationship as above all material boundaries, he decides to show abhorrence to gifts.
Another reason could be his family background. Some families do not have a strong gift exchange tradition. Living in a gift less environment, he obviously remains oblivious to the importance of gifts in a human relationship.
4.He doesn't have the money to buy you gift-
It could be that he does not have time and money to buy you gifts, and he is ashamed to buy you cheap gifts. Because of her tremulous economic condition and shortage of money, he probably has never had the luxury to buy you precious gifts.
Is there a way you can persuade your boyfriend to buy you gifts?
Yes. But for that to happen, you first need to make him slowly realize the importance of gifts in a relationship. Implicitly persuade him that you don’t want an expensive gift from him, but little things as flowers and chocolates. Even ask your boyfriend to buy you a set of pen or flowers to keep them as a memory of your relationship. It will not only make him feel better but will also help him in realizing the importance of gifts. Even if he still doesn't present you with gifts after all these efforts, don't leave him or show any dissatisfaction. After all, love is something above material boundaries and gifts are only small compliments that add to its taste.
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